4 Tips to become the best Muslimah4️⃣!

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Chatting with a dear friend of mine today made me realise what it truly means to place our trust—our tawakkul—in Allah SWT.

Tawakkul can arise from many places, but it always leads to one truth: anything done through Allah will be done with strength, and anything done alone will come with struggles.

It’s a simple yet profound reality—focus on our ONE Creator, and He will take care of the rest.

But here’s a common mistake we often make.

When making dua, we engrave it in our minds that Allah will answer in the exact way we imagine.

This perspective can limit us.

Instead, we need to trust that if Allah wants something for us, He will guide us through a series of events, sometimes subtle, but it is always for the best.

So today, here are 4 tips that you should implement goodness throughout this life and in the next.

1. Embrace Tawakkul Fully

Place your trust in Allah with complete certainty, knowing He has a perfect plan.

The key is to surrender, recognizing that what comes your way is part of His wisdom.

Let go of the need for control and trust in the chain of events Allah sets in motion for you.

2. Focus on Khushoo’ in Worship

Ask Allah to increase your khushoo' (focus and humility) in your worship and prayer.

Even in your busy life, it’s important to make space for these moments of connection.

Lock in and remind yourself: despite what we convince ourselves, we do have time.

Have a look at my screen-time during yesterday.

Those 4 almost 5 hours on YouTube could be spent productively like reconnecting with my deen.

3. Make Your Dunya Part of Your Deen

Who said dunya (worldly life) and deen (religion) are separate?

We can turn our daily tasks into acts of worship by shifting our intentions.

Whether it’s work, study, or caring for your family, if done with the right heart, they can be a form of worship.

When you live this way, every moment becomes a chance to gain reward.

4. Recognize Allah’s Blessings Upon You

SubhanAllah, Allah has selected each of us from the billions of people on this earth to be guided towards Islam.

It’s a privilege that we often take for granted.

When you feel restricted or struggle with the deen, remind yourself that you were hand-picked by Allah.

It’s not always easy, but knowing that we were chosen for this path gives us strength to keep going.

Now is the time to take the first step toward uplifting your spiritual health.

The time will pass either way—why not spend it drawing closer to your Creator?

في أمان الله

Amal <3