21 for 21!

happy birthday to me :))

Amal Yussuf
October 13, 2024

As I reflect on my 21st year, I’ve realized that life is a collection of lessons—each one shaping us into who we are meant to be.

This milestone has given me the chance to look back at the experiences, challenges, and moments of growth that have defined my journey so far.

In this special edition, I’m sharing 21 key lessons that have taught me more about myself, faith, and the world around me.

Whether you’re at a similar stage in life as me or just starting your own journey, I hope these reflections resonate with you.

Take the First Step: Progress begins when you start, even if you’re unsure.
Focus on Yourself: True growth happens when you prioritize your own journey.
Learning Through Mistakes: Mastery comes from getting things wrong and using those mistakes to improve.
Put Yourself Out There: Even if it doesn’t feel aligned with who you are yet, opportunities will help you grow.
Know Yourself: Self-discovery is an ongoing process. Take time to embrace who you are becoming.
Kindness is Priceless: It costs nothing to be kind, but it can mean the world to someone else.
Ask When You Don’t Know: Never be afraid to seek help. Asking questions is a sign of strength, not weakness.
No is a Complete Sentence: You don’t owe anyone explanations when you need to set boundaries.
You Can Always Restart: At any moment, you have the power to reset and start fresh.
Small Setbacks Don’t Define You: A single quiz or moment of failure won’t determine your future—what you learn from it will.
Health is Wealth: Your well-being is invaluable, so use it wisely and take care of yourself.
Avoid Backbiting: Speaking ill of others always comes back to harm you. Avoid it at all costs.
Be True to Your Word: Honor your commitments to yourself and others—integrity matters.
Strive for Excellence: Continuously work toward becoming the best version of yourself.
Give Wherever You Can: Charity isn’t just about money—give time, help, or a kind word whenever possible.
Set Aside Ego in Learning: To truly learn, put aside pride and be open to growth.
Respect Your Body: Your body has a right over you; don’t push it beyond its limits.
Faith is Your Guiding Light: Faith in Allah SWT is what leads you to true success and fulfillment.
Repetition Builds Success: Consistent, small actions form habits—and good habits lead to success.
Gratitude is Essential: Be grateful to Allah SWT in both the good and difficult times. It’s a cornerstone of peace.
Enjoy the Moment: Don’t treat life as a “transition” to something better. Each moment holds its own value if you embrace it.

As I step into this new chapter, I carry these 21 lessons with me as a reminder of how far I’ve come and how much further there is to go.

Life is a continuous process of growth, and I’m excited to embrace everything that lies ahead with gratitude and faith.

Thank you for being part of my journey, and I hope these lessons inspire you as they have shaped me.

Barakallah feek,

Amal <33